I have such a sadness...

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2008
I have such a sadness...
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Mon, 02-09-2009 - 3:47pm

Most of you know of my story with my AP then xAP then AP again and now I am so sad and confused that I just want to curl up and cry all day.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-27-2008
Mon, 02-09-2009 - 7:53pm

Oh, my dear, sounds like we are in the same boat, except after a few whirlwind weeks (and almost getting caught), he told me that all he can be is my friend.

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Registered: 11-28-2007
Tue, 02-10-2009 - 12:45pm

Just wanted to send both of you big huge hugs - and remind you that you are strong, wonderful women - and you get to make some decisions too!

lightning in my heart

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Registered: 08-02-2000
Tue, 02-10-2009 - 7:56pm

I'm sorry, but when a guy doesn't bother to contact you in any way for two months, he is NOT crazy about you. In fact, he's "just not that into you". Oh, sure, he'll have sex with you if you'll let him. Guys don't have to be into you to sleep with you. He'll just also do things like, for example, let two months go by without so much as a "hello".

I wouldn't fall for his sweet talk and proclamations of how much he cares. You've made it through 2 months without him. You can make it through forever, too. You don't need this guy. He's full of it and using you. But only if you let him.