I have such a sadness...
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I have such a sadness...
| Mon, 02-09-2009 - 3:47pm |
Most of you know of my story with my AP then xAP then AP again and now I am so sad and confused that I just want to curl up and cry all day.

Oh, my dear, sounds like we are in the same boat, except after a few whirlwind weeks (and almost getting caught), he told me that all he can be is my friend.
Just wanted to send both of you big huge hugs - and remind you that you are strong, wonderful women - and you get to make some decisions too!
I'm sorry, but when a guy doesn't bother to contact you in any way for two months, he is NOT crazy about you. In fact, he's "just not that into you". Oh, sure, he'll have sex with you if you'll let him. Guys don't have to be into you to sleep with you. He'll just also do things like, for example, let two months go by without so much as a "hello".
I wouldn't fall for his sweet talk and proclamations of how much he cares. You've made it through 2 months without him. You can make it through forever, too. You don't need this guy. He's full of it and using you. But only if you let him.