I have urges frequently, please help
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I have urges frequently, please help
| Tue, 10-28-2003 - 10:58pm |
i have been married for 5 years. The first 3 were great but then I started to have feelings for a guy friend. I couldn't "cheat"on my husband so I left him. That fell through and I came back. Now there is this guy who has let me know he's interested and I really want him too. He treats me like a queen. I want to but I know it's "wrong". Is it really wrong if it's only sex? I don't plan on building a life with him. Could someone please offer a word of advice?

All I can say is it will probably end up being not only about sex. I thought I could have an A that way (and I think if you read back through a lot of the posts you will find that most women do get emotionally involved whether they plan to or not). So be careful. It’s really hard, and the ups and downs can be SO intense.
I don’t think it’s “wrong,” or maybe it is -- but who am I to say?!! I’m just warning that as much as we try to keep it ONLY sex, it rarely seems to work out that way.
Good luck to you!
Charlotte