I jumped off the fence!!!!!
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I jumped off the fence!!!!!
| Tue, 01-13-2004 - 2:46pm |
I finally put an offer on a condo. I'm signing the divorce papers this week. It's sad but also comforting. You wouldn't believe the relief it has been to make my decision final. My relationship with H is even better now that we are working on just being friends and not man and wife. I felt so much presuure to be his wife. I worked so hard to make myself believe that I could stay with him forever. I'm finally happy for once. H and I have a great schedule for our son and the condo is just around the corner from his house. I have a great look out on life.
I've been trying to not keep MM totally informed. I don't want to change our relationship at all just yet. He's STILL married. So he's gonna get it all laid out for him. It's her or me. I knew he was planning on divorcing her before we hooked up but if he's going to hang around any longer he better get the divorce. I'm in this life for ME now. And my kids of course! Being married and with a MM man seems so different than being single woth a mm man. Do you think?
Thanks

listen, be demanding and tell MM to sh%t or get off the pot (you!) because you're a free woman to do whatever you want, whenever you want. if MM was going to get divorced before you came into the picture, why isn't he divorced then??!
it's time to call his bluff, honey. i hope you get the answer you want!!
gurl
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