I just don't love H anymore!

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Registered: 03-09-2004
I just don't love H anymore!
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Tue, 03-09-2004 - 4:20pm
I have come to the realization that I just don't love my H anymore. Yes, I have been having an affair with someone for 3 months and am starting to fall for him, but this isn't about him. Over the past couple of months I have come to resent and really feel like I have been tied down for to long to my H. We have been married for almost 11 years and dated for four years before that. I can't make him understand that I need space and the smoothering has gotten worse. He is some what controlling but all in all he is a great man and father. He has cheated once that I have proof of but that was long ago. I know that I could have it alot worse, but I really long to have my freedom. My SM is leaving in a couple of months (military) and I feel that a seperation from him and my H would be a wonderful thing. H is scheduled to leave in Oct.(also military, not same unit) I just don't really know how to go about this. Were do I begin? I don't want to just cut and run. I would really like to do this amicabley, but is there such a thing? Help!
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Registered: 01-21-2004
Tue, 03-09-2004 - 4:42pm

hi ilostmyheart and welcome to the board!


honey, you do need space and time to think!

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