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| Mon, 09-08-2003 - 10:24am |
Sometimes (notice I did say "sometimes") people change when their backs are against the wall. I didn't like the fact that MM, lead his W to think it was me "chasing" him. That he had tried to end things with me (which was a lie), and I wouldn't take no for a answer. If he was any kind of a man, he would have accepted the fact that we had gotten caught. Tried to defuse the situation without lying, or making me out to be some deranged, mad woman. MM, tried to place all the blame on me.
Next time things will be different. You can be ever so careful, and 1 slip and your little secret is out in the open. MM, and I had been together for 6 years before 1 slip and the cat was out of the bag.
Always protect yourself if you can. Don't depend on someone else for your protection.

Someday you will not care what the W thinks really happened. Someday she will know that it doesn't matter what her H told her - that the truth might be completely different. When the smoke clears, and I mean really clears, when emotions are no longer high, none of this will matter.
The best way to protect yourself is to not get into any extramarital affair at all, but everyone knows that. I hope that the future finds you happier and more self-protected.
well, as much as I think he loves me, I have to worry about protecting my own butt and covering my own tracks because he is doing the same. he has promised me with all he has that he is going to keep me out of this. I hope that he sticks to his word but I'm not feeling so optimistic after reading what a bunch of other ladies in similar situations have went through... I'm just taking my nerve pills and hoping that I can get through this without any major catastrophes.