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I know the answer but can't let it go
| Sat, 12-06-2008 - 10:33pm |
I guess I'm looking for the answer to come out and bite me. LOL
I wonder how many AP's there are that really have NC during weekends ever.

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Your not harsh at all.
You are not the only one who would do this; i.e. hang on, when there doesn't seem like much to hang onto.
Wow I want to write more to you but I'm short on time.
Your post speaks volumns to me.
Thank you so much
Your situation sounds very hard to ever break free from.
It's confusing for me.
Esp when he is at work (like today) I know for a fact he can email me without the W knowing.
There was more contact in the beginning;
My EAP and I have been talking for almost a year now. We never talk on weekends. He is married, I am married and I have children, and we respect each others time with family. He also is extremely careful and will only talk to me during the day while at work and even that is not too often. We may go days without being in contact, but we know we each are still there.
We have known each other since we were in junior high and I am now thirty. We will always be there for one another in some way. I would love to talk more, but we may be in contact a few times in a week and then go over a week or more with nc.
I am learning to just enjoy the time we do talk and just enjoy his friendship. I am learning to control my emotions. It's hard, but it has to be done.
I keep myself busy with my life, my family, work. I have decided to pull back some, let him come to me.
good luck.
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