i know i can get very hurt.

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Registered: 06-08-2007
i know i can get very hurt.
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Tue, 01-13-2009 - 11:40am
out of the blue i get an email from my X-AP, he wants to spend time with me this afternoon. i shot him an email and said yes. i'm meeting him. it's like he's doing this on hos own with out prompts from me. were as when we where in an affair, i would have to prompt and push him to make dates. this could change more then ever the way i feel about him. i'm in love with him, but it could make me feel even closer. i'll let ya know how it goes. due to the ice storm last week we never got together. i haven't seen him in 2 and half months.
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Registered: 11-29-2006
Tue, 01-13-2009 - 1:38pm
Are you sure you want to do this to yourself again?

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Registered: 04-05-2007
Tue, 01-13-2009 - 4:22pm

I am going to echo Stephanie.

You already know you can get hurt. You have been hurt in the past, this time will very likely not be any different.

I know you think you can have a friendship with this man, but you should be focusing on healing yourself so that next time he pulls this you will be strong enough to say no.

I hope it goes/went well.

~Shadowz
~Shadowz
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Registered: 10-22-2008
Tue, 01-13-2009 - 7:24pm

It's evening now......


Give us an update.

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Registered: 06-08-2007
Tue, 01-13-2009 - 8:57pm
I know one poster said i think hes my friend. I know we are friends. We confide our inner most feelings. We keep it at that level. We had a good time toda). We had a nice lunch, walk$ed through the mall, and sat and talked. It felt so good to see him. We wont cross the line to anything else. I dont want to. Sex is fleeting, friendships mean more.