i know I know

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Registered: 04-06-2010
i know I know
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Sun, 04-11-2010 - 7:44pm

Earlier this week , I said I am having affair but that I was not giving to much of myself.


Well, it turn out that I am more emotionally involve with my new ap then I thought. Today I found out he had a Facebook became friend with one of his friend and the things I read got me so upset.

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Registered: 03-29-2010
In reply to: lady_still
Mon, 04-12-2010 - 7:54am
Yeah, he does have a point Lady... As a MW involved with a single guy, I don't expect him NOT to look for someone he could be with full time. But if I saw him flirting online I know it would hurt! Luckily for me he doesn't do stuff like that online LOL. Maybe you should just stay off his FB page.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2008
In reply to: lady_still
Mon, 04-12-2010 - 9:10am

I would have written more but I am short of time but I would say get out of this A business! Its not for the faint hearted like you and you might end up hurt AGAIN. Many single guys like the lure of a married woman.Once they have you,they treat you like rubbish.

If your AP is THAT desirable,wanted man,then why is he having an A with you? Increasing the number in his stable?Kick him out.

D not because S life is tempting but your M has died.D for the right reasons so you wont have regrets.

Your AP has shown you early on that he is not serious about you or the A.How can you trust him either and leave your M?He is going around and who knows is having another A?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-12-2008
In reply to: lady_still
Tue, 04-13-2010 - 12:44pm

lady_still,

Stop NOW !! Re-read your old posts and see the trauma you went through with that OM.Dont repeat the same mistake for heavens sake!

Where are you picking up these SM from ?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-06-2010
In reply to: lady_still
Tue, 04-13-2010 - 9:22pm

Hi, All


Thank you all for your replies..

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-06-2010
In reply to: lady_still
Tue, 04-13-2010 - 9:26pm

Funkygonepunky,


You are correct. I am beginning to feel like I did with my exap.. However this one is not a controlling freak.. he is just a big womanizes.