I Know This Shouldn't Bother M...

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I Know This Shouldn't Bother M...
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Mon, 10-25-2010 - 11:13pm

but it does.

In an email I sent AP almost two weeks ago, I told him that I realized how stressed he was, and among other things, told him I was not going to ask him to get together anymore, that it would be up to him if he wanted to see me.

He leaves on Thursday for his "cross country", four month work assignment.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 10-25-2010
Tue, 10-26-2010 - 2:24am

Sounds like a frustrating situation. This happens when we aren't true to are feelings and when we don't articulate what we truly want.

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Registered: 04-05-2007
Tue, 10-26-2010 - 8:33am

I don't blame you for that bothering you.

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Registered: 10-03-2007
Tue, 10-26-2010 - 10:26am

Your AP has taken the opportunity to break it off from you.

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Registered: 05-03-2010
Tue, 10-26-2010 - 12:01pm

While I'm definitely thinking about ending things today, there will be no other guy.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 03-30-2010
Tue, 10-26-2010 - 12:02pm

Hugs Another,

It seems like you & AP are not on the same page and when that happens it causes alot of hurt, conflict and misunderstanding. From your posts I gather that he wants

 


Much peace & Love,


Rayne


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Registered: 10-08-2010
Tue, 10-26-2010 - 12:06pm

Another, you and I are so very much alike in this situation.

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Registered: 05-03-2010
Tue, 10-26-2010 - 12:13pm

Thanks Daisy and Rayne!

I just sent him an email wishing him well and telling him good bye...

anotherseyes

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Registered: 10-08-2010
Tue, 10-26-2010 - 12:15pm

I know your heart is breaking :smileysad:

(((((big hug)))))

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Registered: 05-03-2010
Tue, 10-26-2010 - 12:19pm

Thanks for the hug; need it right now because yes, my heart is breaking wide open right now...

anotherseyes

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Tue, 10-26-2010 - 12:48pm
I'm so sorry Another...
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