i let her do it again

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Registered: 09-21-2007
i let her do it again
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Mon, 01-19-2009 - 3:52pm

I havent posted here in awhile, But im to the point i need some company. To make it short, I started seeing this girl i work with a couple years ago. We are both married with kids. Fell in love and all that. She gets pregnant by her H. Tells me to much stress

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Registered: 06-08-2007
Mon, 01-19-2009 - 4:15pm
I just want to say. Im sorry. I cant really offer much more.
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Registered: 01-18-2009
Mon, 01-19-2009 - 5:49pm
I guess my question to you is....what about your own marriage? You make absolutely no mention of it besides the fact that you are. Just where do you think this relationship with this woman is going to go? Seriously? She's now having another child with her husband. Maybe this second child should be your sign that it's probably time for you to focus on the relationship you already have....with your wife...and fix whatever is wrong with it to the extent that you've been cheating on her. Especially since this woman is not going to be someone you run into every day. Honestly, I just don't know what else to tell you about this. The affair sounds like a hopeless situation that can't go anywhere.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-21-2007
Tue, 01-20-2009 - 3:22pm
Ya well i make no mention of
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-19-2009
Tue, 01-20-2009 - 3:26pm

Seems to me you are looking for more out of this than she is?


She had the child, things got boring and she started back with you. Now the baby livens her life back up, and I am bettin dollars to donuts it doesn't go well for you.


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Registered: 09-21-2007
Tue, 01-20-2009 - 3:49pm

hahah ya kind of sounds that way. i guess we will see. I will play along for now and see where it heads. I expressed to her the same kinds of things. She says she cant turn her feelings off this time like she did last time.


Dont be sorry, thanks for being honest.

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Registered: 01-18-2009
Tue, 01-20-2009 - 3:56pm
Work out how?
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Registered: 09-21-2007
Tue, 01-20-2009 - 4:01pm
hey you never know. I know im probly being nieve, but i truly am attached to this woman. I had told her, when she first told me she was preggo, that we might as well end it. She said no, "I need you". so idk.