I miss him

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-19-2009
I miss him
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Tue, 05-19-2009 - 6:04pm

I have been lurking on here for quite some time. Today has been a long day. I have been in this affair for over a year and thought I was fine with the contact that I do recieve. But lately, it is not enough. I miss him so much.

I texted him today but he doesn't respond which is hurtful. I have told him a few times now how it makes me feel yet he doesn't change. When I do finally see him, it is great but then after a few weeks, things are back to the way they were.

We are both married with children, we both work full time and have a lot on our plates. But it only takes a few minutes to respond to a text, call.

I hate how it makes me feel when he does not respond. This affair is such a rollar coaster ride, sometimes wondering if the ride is worth it at all.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-12-2009
In reply to: braunsgirl
Tue, 05-19-2009 - 7:51pm

I hear ya! I hate the nights & weekends that I don't see him. Hang in there & remember, sometimes it's best to get off the rollere coaster to appreciate the joy

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-19-2009
In reply to: braunsgirl
Tue, 05-19-2009 - 10:12pm

Thanks....it is so hard..but what I don't get is how hard is it to respond, takes less than 5 minutes but he can't or won't. I don't know. When I ask him about it, it is always the same response which is..."I am busy, I am not able to ...". When I say to him that it is disrespectful, he agrees.

I know my feelings are more than his which makes the situation even worse.