I need advice!!!!!!
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I need advice!!!!!!
| Tue, 09-16-2003 - 1:08am |
ok here's the deal, the om i am seeing just got his internet back on and when i asked him why he did , he said because he was missing me and he figured he should do something that that, well the reason we dont get to see each other is b/c he is married too, and we met at my recent job that i no longer work at. we are still together even though we live an hour away from each other but between his job and our other lives it's hard to get together and spend time with each other so now u can understand why im glad he got his internet back on so we can at least communciate more, so when he got it he sent me several messages saying he misses me and is thinking alot about me, but since then it has been almost 4 days and i havent heard anything from him, i need advice, i mean is he just trying to be careful so he doesnt get caught, oh by the way i did get caught with a letter i wrote him and left the freakin thing in my purse and my husband found it but that's other story, i just would like to know why guys wait for days to call you or email you, if anyone has any advice or suggestions, im open for other people's opinions.

Liberal
so my advice would be to email him one time and say something innocent like "what's up?" after that you'll have to wait it out and see if he contacts you. when he does, and he will, i'm sure, tell him that you need a little more frequent contact please. if he's okay with your request, he'll stay in touch via email more often. if not, then you'll have your answer.
that's just my opinion, not experience in my A. my MM calls me at least 2x a day and we see each other at least once a week so i don't have your worries.
but i do know that men in general do not think like us women and pick up the phone or mouse as soon as they think of us.
hang in there,
gurl