I need help

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Registered: 12-16-2003
I need help
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Tue, 12-16-2003 - 11:35pm
to make it short...I got involved with my boss...I work for her..and for her husband...in their company...it didn't go too far...basically...over the phone because I was in a long vacation then...I did fall in love...so she did...problems started when her husband discovered the really huge cell phone bill she got..but he never knew "who" or "what" was going on...or who she was talking to...and she refused to explain anything to him at that time...(months ago) last time we talked we almost agreed on being "friends" again...and forget about what short crazy relation we had...I know things are ok now between them...and I really don't want and can never forgive myself if their marriage would ever suffer from this...I still want to be their friend..and ofcourse not to lose my job...what should I do...how should I react to anything and everything...I'm confused...any ideas are welcome

feel free to give advice...I'll appreciate any feedback...

thanks

J.D.

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Registered: 04-03-2003
In reply to: iafraid
Wed, 12-17-2003 - 1:58am
Sounds to me like all you need to do is talk to her one more time for some closure. Tell her all the stuff you told us!! Who could turn down such a good friend???? i believe everything happens for a reason. Your short liason needed to happen for one or both of you. it sounds like you are basically in a good place.

Good luck,

jen

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Registered: 12-16-2003
In reply to: iafraid
Sun, 12-21-2003 - 8:57pm
well...I keep trying...but she avoids having any discussion or talk about it with me...and seems to always avoid the situation where we stay alone together...it's getting harder to talk to her in private..and somehow the pressure of work prevents me too...I will try to call her sometime next week...but what should I say exactly..?..I don't want to hurt her...or myself...