I need help....

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Registered: 08-29-2003
I need help....
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Fri, 08-29-2003 - 10:30am
Long story short, I am married....marriage was really, really bad....I started talking online to somebody a few weeks ago...who is also married....he made me feel really good. It went no further.....I met him once and now H has found out and wants it to stop. It has...but he wants to call him and I am afraid for him to call...I don't want OM to get upset with me. However, H threatened to leave me if I didn't give him the "courtesy" of this one phone call to tell him to leave me alone.

????

How did I ever get in this situation. :(

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: karmja
Fri, 08-29-2003 - 10:35am
hello karmja. your H is hurt and acting out like a child. you must convince him that calling this OM is silly and will accomplish nothing. your H needs to pay attention to you and the M. otherwise you getting online and talking with another man who made you feel good (because H obviously does not) would not have happened, would it?

do not give your H OM's number. he should not be brought into your M since you are finished with the R.

stay strong,

gurl