I need help, someone set me straight

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Registered: 08-21-2010
I need help, someone set me straight
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Sat, 08-21-2010 - 10:57am
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Edited 8/22/2010 2:09 pm ET by kitcat30
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Registered: 04-27-2010
Sat, 08-21-2010 - 11:22am

(HUGS) kitcat. Been through the NC thing...so, I know the hurt and the obsessing. To put it mildly...SUCKS :)


But...look at you, girl, you've made it through 2 whole months!!!

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Registered: 10-03-2009
Sat, 08-21-2010 - 11:33am

hi kitcat..


yep, what you are going through is very typical.


i agree that it's best to wait.

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Registered: 08-21-2010
Sat, 08-21-2010 - 12:21pm

Thanks you both for your reply.

I absolutely have no intentions of contacting him, I'd only be making a desperate fool of myself, and the ball is in his court... so I will wait.

But with NC, I start to think the worst. I start to doubt everything, and I start to think that he really doesn't want to ever be with me... All of these obsessive, negative thoughts float through my head.
I wonder if it's as hard for him as it is for me.
I wish I could read his mind and know what his true intentions with me really are.

So, if this is typical behavior in A's, what is the outcome?
Do people ever end up together after going NC for awhile or does it just eventually fade because it was never meant to be?

I guess in our situation, we would have a fresh start, especially if we were both free and single. I guess I won't know until it happens.

Ahhhhh, this is so incredibly hard for me, all I want to do is talk to him. :(

But, I will stay strong. Thanks again for the encouragement!