i need some help.... so confused

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-07-2009
i need some help.... so confused
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Wed, 10-07-2009 - 1:15am
so im 27 and ive been engaged for 2 years now but for the last 7 months there has been this guy from work, hes 44 and we have been flirting alot. we have met outside of work and fooled around we have even had sex at work, now hes been in a relationship for 5 years. now we cant really see each other outside of work except every other weekend for about 2 hours, i cant get him off my mind, i feel guilty in some ways but i am really enjoying him. i guess im just confused and looking for someone to talk to about it, any response would be greatly appreciated. thanks in advance
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Registered: 04-23-2007
Wed, 10-07-2009 - 11:10am
I say don't get M if you are already cheating and not M. Find out what you are missing from your R and either fix it but don't tie the knot knowing that you are not going to be faithful. You are young and he could be using you as a play toy so try not to get your heart involved.
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Registered: 09-18-2009
Wed, 10-07-2009 - 12:17pm

I think it is common to get caught up with someone else.