I need some opinions

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Registered: 05-13-2009
I need some opinions
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Tue, 09-29-2009 - 2:33pm

I have some choices to make so I'm looking for some of your opinions about my situation. I will try not to ramble.


A little back round. I am a

Scar
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-26-2009
Tue, 09-29-2009 - 3:25pm

Only you can guess if he can be discrete at work or if you think he will slip up.

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Registered: 09-14-2009
Tue, 09-29-2009 - 7:41pm

That's a tough one! I guess the decision really has to be yours. I am not sure how big your company is and if you guys would be in a place where if he said that it would make a huge difference. I know where I work I am the only girl and the guys teasingly call me babe or honey because it's such a huge NO NO. So we do it as a joke. I don't work with my AP so I can't say, for me it would be hard because I want to be with him and being near him but not being with him would be hard. BUT if it's a good job for you and a good career move I say go for it, and see what happens. I know we are all in the spot of we want our cake and to eat it too, but you deserve the job, and you deserve to be happy. KWIM?