I need some support, :)

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Registered: 08-23-2003
I need some support, :)
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Wed, 11-05-2003 - 7:35pm
OK girls! We all go through NC and I think I'm heading for a NC week. Starting tomorrow he'll be home- which means Thursday, Friday, Sat & Sun & maybe even Monday, but I'm not sure about that, but maybe, cause it's Veterans day. I won't hear from him. We already don't talk on weekends because we talk m-f so weekends it's harder cause he's at home and the family thing and all so he just waits till he gets back to work on Mondays to call.

Sooo what I'm trying to say is this will be the longest (5 days)with NC not by my choice either because I'm pretty reachable to him.

I need some support. I need to show him and MYSELF I'll be OK. I need to, I want to not call him or email him. If he calls me that's OK, but I don't want to whine to him like I usually do because we've gone a couple of days w/o talking.

We've been together for over 3 years and we have had periods of NC, but it's been a lloongg time since the last one.

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Registered: 10-23-2003
Thu, 11-06-2003 - 9:48am
You'll survive - make him a passion instead of an addiction...sometimes time apart is good, you'll appreciate one another more next week

cl-liberalgirl

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Registered: 09-16-2003
Thu, 11-06-2003 - 10:08am

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Registered: 09-09-2003
Thu, 11-06-2003 - 10:15am
Absence does make the heart grow fonder. Get busy doing something that can take away your desire to contact him.

Last week MM went out of town and we didn't see each other for five whole days. I had a lot to do and I got busy doing that. Yes I missed him, but he did call me during that time. When we finally saw each other on Tuesday, it was wonderful. He really did miss me. He kept complaining about how we didn't see each other for five days and I was ignoring him. I really wasn't ignoring him, I was just focused on my work and I had a lot to do.

Get busy doing something that takes up your time and energy and before you know it, he'll be back begging to see you.

Laugh Smiles

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Registered: 09-18-2003
Thu, 11-06-2003 - 11:12am
I am also going through a period of NC. My MM is away at a training school for a promotion in the Army. He will be there for 2 weeks...2 long weeks ! LOL Anyway, I was just trying to deal with him being away and NC and last night was so surprised to get a phone call from him. It was wonderful to hear his voice after 7 days !!! He said he was missing me so much and that he can't wait to get back so we can see one another. It made me feel so good to hear that from him. Be strong and enjoy your 5 days, just know that your MM will be calling soon and telling you how much he missed you !

Wishing~

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Registered: 09-30-2003
Thu, 11-06-2003 - 11:17am
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Edited 10/1/2004 6:48 pm ET ET by sally289