I really do love this guy,,,,

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Registered: 07-24-2009
I really do love this guy,,,,
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Thu, 07-29-2010 - 3:43pm

So i think a lot of us use this board to vent when things are difficult, and get support when we are struggling, which means we tend to share the negative things in our affair... and i wanted to post something positive!


Been having a great week with AP, reminding me of all the reasons I love having him in my life... and all from 3000 miles away!


I love the way he handles me - like he sometimes understands me better than I understand myself, and creates this space where I know I can be more authentic than anywhere else in my life.


I love the intensity in his eyes when he looks at me, and I can see on his face how much he loves me.


I love that he shares his heart, his thoughts, his struggles, his fears, with me that he doesn't share with anyone else, and he lets me hear, comfort, support, and heal him so he can return to fighting the world again.


I love the level of honesty he brings to our relationship, even in telling me things I would rather not hear.


I love his voice - SOOOOO sexy!!!!


I love exploring new things sexually with someone who will share his fantasies, and takes pleasure in fulfilling mine.


I love the drive, focus and committment with which he approaches all of his life, even though it sometimes takes him away from me.

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Registered: 01-31-2010
Thu, 07-29-2010 - 3:57pm

I love the way he looks at me.


I love the way he treats me.

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Registered: 03-30-2010
Thu, 07-29-2010 - 4:04pm

I love the sweet kisses he gives me on my forehead, when he calls me baby girl and for no reason will have a beautiful rose for me to brighten my day. I love how helpful he is towards other people and how he never uses any foul language. He is very much a gentleman & has never said anything to hurt me. I love that he has a shy side to him and blushes when I say something naughty. I like that he's willing to try anything at least once with me.


I love the hunger & desire in his eyes when he sees & holds me.

 


Much peace & Love,


Rayne


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Registered: 03-26-2010
Fri, 07-30-2010 - 12:19am
Bah!
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Registered: 02-06-2010
Fri, 07-30-2010 - 2:13am
lucky you! glad to read u r a happy one!! 3000 miles away. how do u make that work? good luck, and enjoy it all while u have it.
when one does not love too much, one does not love enough --blaise pascal
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Registered: 07-24-2009
Fri, 07-30-2010 - 10:11am

marie - oh, i'm on here venting on occasion!

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Registered: 02-06-2010
Sat, 07-31-2010 - 2:50am
good for u to be mature enough to recognize what works for you, and what you can tolerate. that is an amazing place to be given the complexities of situations like these. not for the faint of heart i am learning. my AP lives 5 mintues away from me, is very busy in the community and we are "lucky" to see each other maybe once a month. i haven't had this revelation that I Love Him b/c frankly, i'm supposed to be in love with the H, and well that is a lot of work. i don't know if i am capable of expressing that emotion truly given the draining energy it takes. can i ask, how long for you b4 u knew it was "love", and what identified it so?
when one does not love too much, one does not love enough --blaise pascal