I really screwed up....and need help to fix it

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Registered: 01-21-2010
I really screwed up....and need help to fix it
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Thu, 10-28-2010 - 8:13am

Long story...and I am sorry.

I am MW in A with SM with a GF.

Confuzed

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Registered: 08-05-2010

WOW...

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Registered: 10-12-2009

Ya, I'm with the above poster....you shouldn't feel bad for having justified emotions. He should have responded to your texts or kept you informed of the plan. When you're married you need to know these things to get your plan together. He was wrong, you were right. Period. We second guess ourselves and that's how we end up settling for the crumbs. We even forget what "good behavior" even is anymore.

Sorry to be harsh, but I'm on your side. Take care.

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Registered: 05-03-2010

I'm sure I'm going to come off sounding harsh here, but why, exactly, do you even WANT to fix things?

anotherseyes

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Registered: 03-30-2010

 


Much peace & Love,


Rayne


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Registered: 04-05-2007

I second the advice here, especially Another's when she said WHY do you want to fix things??

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Registered: 03-26-2010

Oh, yeah, I am DEFINITELY with the others here: he needs fixing, not you or the situation.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-23-2010

Come on over to EAS and we will show you how to claim your self-respect back and get out of this relationship where you are being abused and treated like garbage.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-21-2010

I totally agree with all of you here...you are all so right.

Confuzed
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Registered: 01-21-2010

We made plans for Monday 11/1 and had the MOST AWESOME day and night.

Confuzed
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Registered: 03-30-2010
Hi Confuzed,
My condolences to you on the loss of your father. Just want to send you a cyber HUG and hope in time you will feel better. I know your hurting and are missing AP terribly, especially after that wonderful time together. During this time apart try getting in control of the things you neglected before while your father was ill. Try eating better, getting into an exercise routine to lose the weight. I think that alone will make you feel better. They always say a health body makes a healthy mind. Taking long walks or running really helps clear the mind most times. Concentrate on your beautiful kids and working on you. You have suffered a great loss and you need to heal. I know its easier said then done but try to keep busy in the things you love & enjoy.

Keep your head up! It gets greater, later = )

 


Much peace & Love,


Rayne


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