I refuse to sit home alone tonight!!

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Registered: 08-11-2009
I refuse to sit home alone tonight!!
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Fri, 04-02-2010 - 9:54pm

Well I have decided that I am going to go out with a girl friend

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Registered: 01-20-2010
Fri, 04-02-2010 - 11:01pm

Congratulations! Get out and have a good time. Don't worry about being available to someone...just being among people can be uplifting; and heck, you never know when lightning might strike in the most unexpected ways ;-)

I went out alone tonight, but sat a local pub, enjoying a beer or two and listening to a little jazz trio. Even though I was chatting with my AP a bit while I was there, it was just nice to be out of my place and enjoying being around people.

Just because the AP is with their family, doesn't mean we have to sit home alone.

I hope you had a great time.

MPV

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Registered: 10-21-2009
Sat, 04-03-2010 - 12:35pm

If tables were turned, do you think your AP would do the same? Sit at home, lonely and sad, while you'd be having a good quality time with your family?

You ARE available. You're single. You have to go out and meet people. Don't wait out for AP, you said yourself actions are not there. If it will happen - fine. If not - than at least you were out there among people having a good time too.

Remember, he's not feeling guilty for your being alone and miserable. So you should not feel like you're betraying him going out once in a few months. Sorry if what I'm saying is not what you wanted to hear, but I really don't understand why single ladies waste months and years of their precious time on selfish men who are having best of both worlds. He'll never change anything if he is not afraid to lose you because you sit and wait for his crumbs. You're too nice, Alive, you deserve better:)

XOXO
Gone

**Bloodied but unbowed**
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Registered: 03-29-2010
Sat, 04-03-2010 - 2:42pm

I agree with everyone else, and I hope you had a terrific time!

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