I said the L word!!

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Registered: 01-31-2004
I said the L word!!
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Tue, 06-01-2004 - 6:36am
Over the weekend - MM and met for a little afternoon delight :) - in the heat of the moment, I told him that I loved him - his response, I love you too! We hadn't seen each other in a few weeks, so, it was great! Not how I had planned to say it (I wasn't even sure I was ready to say it - it just came out!)

Okay - so, I should feel great, right? Well, I'm scared he is going to run in the other dierection (obsessing?) I didn't hear from him yesterday - but, it was a holiday so that was problaby the reason, right?

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Tue, 06-01-2004 - 10:37am
ducks

Of course you're obsessing! He could have said it FIRST and You would STILL be obsessing! Isn't that the way it works?? You know the drill.... time will tell. He told you it back and YES yesterday was a holiday so most likely you wouldn't have heard from him anyway! Take a deep breath and pretend it never happened so you won't throw yourself into a tailspin. Get busy with other things and when you talk to him again don't bring it up. Just be glad you both said it and everyting is ok!

:)

dd

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Registered: 01-31-2004
Tue, 06-01-2004 - 10:47am
You are so right - but, why is it that I obsess so much? I guess I'm not comfortable with silence - I always feel better even if we only exchange vm's in a day just hearing from him! Why can't I just can't get control and feel secure with my realtionship with him?? Funny - it was very passionate, close S the other day - so, I guess that's just why it came out of my mouth, that and I missed him so much - it had been a couple of weeks since we saw each other. And..he kept saying I missed you baby.

See - I need to talk myself into good thoughts!! haha.