I see his flaws but can’t leave him
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I see his flaws but can’t leave him
| Wed, 06-16-2010 - 7:02pm |
Sometimes I wonder why I can’t end my A when I can name so many things I don’t like about my AP. At first I didn’t notice them, but now I see so many of them and still I want him, still go crazy when not with him. I really hope that some day all the things I don’t like about him will

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I sure wish I could find flaws with my AP....
When we're in love, we see flaws but they don't matter - especially when it's in the infatuation stage.
Later down the road, after living together etc., those flaws can seem MUCH bigger and harder to deal with.
But you're not alone.
You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull
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I completely agree with your words:
"When we're in love, we see flaws but they don't matter - especially when it's in the infatuation stage."
We only miss what could have been. I know I don't miss what it really was.
Hi findfreedom
I am EXACTLY like you. A great husband, want to spend my life with him (he has his faults but love each other warts and all). Whereas I am addicted to an AP who I have very strong feelings for but like you i doubt that its love.
Its not love because he does little things that hurt me evry now and then- just to protect himself. He feels guilty so he wont admit any feelings or look at anything in the future, and he is very self focussed and selfish. But I still cant let him go!
If you find the answer- I'll do the 12 step program with you :)
IGSxx
I realize you didn't ask me, but I'll bite :)
LOL Kimber ;-) ...snap snap ...nice teeth!
Me too ...well said!
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