I seem to be confusing some of you.
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I seem to be confusing some of you.
| Sun, 05-16-2004 - 7:18pm |
I seem to be confusing some of you, so here is my story for those of you that might care. I have been M for 4 years and in an EMA with a MM for a little over 1 year. So here is my story. I started to feel lonely and started talking on the phone with a M friend of ours. He would call me several times a day and come over and we would talk and watch a movie. My H knew he would come over to visit and didn't have a problem with it. One day on the phone this M friend of ours out of the blue told me he loved me. I was shocked but I have to admitt he was filling an emotional void I felt in my M. I told my H how I was feeling and he was a little hurt at first but said he was glad I had come to him before anything happened. Then one day our M friend was over helping H with something and H started messing around with me...........needless to say we ended up having a 3some. It was a 3some for about 2 or 3 months, then as feelings grew on both MM and my part it went to just a 2some. Anyways we have been together for a little over a year now. My H is fully aware of our sexual relationship. I know this is a crazy situation but its just the way things happened. Either way I feel lucky because I have 2 men who love me and care for me. I hope this clears things up a bit. I guess some of you wouldn't agree that its right for H to know, but I prefer it that way. I am glad I told him before anything happened, I know how hurt he would have been to hear it after the fact from someone else.

I have a question for you, if you don't mind? Just because I'm trying to walk in my guys' g/f's shoes. If your H were to take up with someone, how would you feel? I assume on a logical level, you'd reason that it's only fair. But how would you *feel* about it???
Glad you came to the board, welcome!!!!
Lucky
bte...good for you - the more the merrier - as long as everyone is on board... ;0
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