I started a blog

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I started a blog
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Wed, 07-28-2010 - 10:38pm

I've been lurking for awhile and haven't posted in quite some time.

MASAlterego


www.nicegirllikeme.blogspot.com

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Registered: 04-27-2010
Wed, 07-28-2010 - 10:57pm

Enjoyed reading your blog entries :) Thanks for sharing...

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Registered: 05-21-2010
Wed, 07-28-2010 - 11:00pm
Masalterego - I definitely think you should continue writing - and I will be reading. You have a way of putting it down that comes out really well...and explains things better than I can.
I am also a suburban mom who never saw myself doing this...so I can relate. I think for anyone who hasn't had an affair, who hasn't been tempted...they may never understand.
I am still the loving mother, daughter, sister, friend. I have messed up. I don't know how to fix it...I get it...totally.

Please keep blogging...and I wish you all the best. Please post here too...tell us your story...let us know how things are going!
LouLou
LouLou
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Registered: 03-26-2010
Thu, 07-29-2010 - 12:02am

I'm gonna check it out!


"so long as they're not lists of all the reasons why I'm a whore"---I'll try to refrain myself!

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Registered: 08-11-2009
Thu, 07-29-2010 - 12:16am
I love it!! I think you should keep writing.
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Registered: 03-29-2010
Thu, 07-29-2010 - 6:56am
I'm going to check it out! Have you made the blog public? Do you have any followers yet? VERY wise to have the comments moderated LOL.

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Registered: 03-30-2010
Thu, 07-29-2010 - 9:08am

Hi Alterego,


What a wonderful blog and you hit on so many thoughts I've had since I've been in my A. You are not alone and no I don't think we are horrible people.


 


Much peace & Love,


Rayne


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Registered: 10-12-2009
Thu, 07-29-2010 - 9:37am

In reading your AWESOME blog, we seem so much alike. I wonder more about your marriage. And the similarities to mine. I also feel like because I am 'comfortable' and secure, should I live in "quiet desperation" for the next 50 years? I mean, I married for the wrong reasons, but he is a decent man. Or do I continue with affairs, gain 100 pounds, or drink more wine? I don't know - my AP isn't going anywhere anyway...but I would leave for me, not him. It's the kids though, they are happy, well adjusted 11 and 13-year-olds...who am I to completely disrupt their happy existence?


If you want to email, let me know, I'd be interested in your perspective.


Thanks for sharing your blog...


LFT

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Registered: 12-29-2008
Thu, 07-29-2010 - 10:14am

Very good blog. I think you should keep writing. I think its important for people to know that we are not these awful beings with no conscience lurking in corners waiting to snatch anothers spouse when given a chance. We are normal everyday people with lives and responsibilities...yes we may be making bad decisions...but alas (pinch....ouch) we're human. so nope don't think your awful, your marriage sounds a lot like mine.

Scarlet

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Registered: 01-31-2010
Thu, 07-29-2010 - 11:05am
Am looking forward to reading this.
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Registered: 01-31-2010
Thu, 07-29-2010 - 11:10am
Read and enjoyed the blog.

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