I think I need a pep talk!

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-17-2003
I think I need a pep talk!
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Sat, 08-30-2008 - 8:06pm

Hi everyone,


I would first like to report that my drinking is getting better. I'm not able to always say no, but I have said it more often than not lately. Not to mention that my stbxh's idea of a "settlement" is a real joke and I've had to go out and hire my own lawyer, on my own dime. The thought of spending hundreds of dollars in the bar just does not appeal so much anymore.


Anyhow, my AP/BF returned from vacation. Even though it was unimaginably long (3 weeks!) it didn't feel like it because he was so wonderful about staying in touch with me. I've told you all this..he phoned and or text messaged me at least once, if not several times a day. He made me feel really, really, special.


He has now left to go back to his out of town job...but not before spending his last night with me. He had come over earlier in the evening but had to leave for family reasons...I wish I knew how he managed to come back to my place later on (unless of course his sons left..that could have been it) because even if they had gone out partying, they surely would have noticed that Dad's vehicle was gone. However it happened, I'm grateful.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-16-2008
Sat, 08-30-2008 - 9:56pm

Please be careful to enjoy the good times!

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-06-2007
Sun, 08-31-2008 - 7:03am

It really does seem like he is completely into you.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-23-2008
Sun, 08-31-2008 - 3:05pm
Good luck with everything Benska

LT xxx