i think it's over

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-10-2004
i think it's over
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Wed, 04-21-2004 - 1:29pm

I think I'm on the verge of ending it. I've been in this LDA

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-30-2004
Wed, 04-21-2004 - 4:31pm
hi heart. well, what does he expect, for you to come out to him without anyone else to use as cover for the trip? and why is he getting so upset anyway -- one would think that after six months apart, he'd be happy just to see you in person, regardless of who was around. i'm not feeling a good outcome here. your MM sounds like he likes the idea of the LDA and communication via phone or email, but not the real thing, in person!

i'd leave the whole situation alone for a week or so. see if MM emails/calls you and how he sounds. then ask him flat out why he's being so nasty about you coming out to him. and ask him nicely, without screaming, as i would do!!

sorry you're down about this. tell MM he's not being very nice to you!

life

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-10-2004
Fri, 04-23-2004 - 8:31pm

Things don't look very good. He sent me a not so nice email. I replied