I think it's time

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Registered: 07-09-2003
I think it's time
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Sun, 10-19-2003 - 12:49pm
I know that everyone that is involved in an EMA, feels at some point and time that it's time to end it. I have tried many times with my MM and for whatever reason we always, continue on. I feel like that with me it's my heart that always brings me back, with him I can't say. I know for him it's not the sex cause more times than any I have either got cold feet or felt to guilty cause I'm married and we don't do it. I think now I'm just too worn out from the worry, guilt and concern that I feel about this EM relationship. I know that cutting off all contact it probably my best choice, but I also know there will be a hole in my heart. I can't cry anymore tears. I just don't know what to do. My husband is a good man and is aware of my communication with MM. Not that he is really thrilled about it. Thanks in advance for support.
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Registered: 04-24-2003
Sun, 10-19-2003 - 1:33pm
just do what you feel is best. I know its hard and you are brave person admiting that to begin with. i think its great you can talk to your DH. My DH also knows i am talking with this OM, and doesn't like it, but is a good man. Look into your heart as to what you want to do. Talk with OM and see if there is any way you can still be distant friends, ( not to have sex, but to keep the connection.. ) good luck, byee
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Registered: 10-14-2003
Sun, 10-19-2003 - 2:36pm
(((((((((hugs)))))))))

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Registered: 04-18-2003
Sun, 10-19-2003 - 3:57pm
Hi Somebodysgirl,

I'm so glad I read your message. I am at the same point in my EMA. We have called it off twice and still find ourselves back together again. He has asked that we disconnect slowly because he wants time to 'wean' off from the relationship. I prefer to just disconnect, go through the pain and move on with my life. I can deal with it this way. You have to know how you can deal with your EMA. I wish you strength, comfort and a bright future!