i was wondering how he can
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i was wondering how he can
| Mon, 01-05-2009 - 11:22am |
go to therapy along with his wife once a week and still talk to me. also how he can even want to help me out and go to therapy. it seems like a conflict, i was wondering if any one else has dealt with this. we are friends, maybe that's how he can deal with it.

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Do you really want the truth?
This man is being nice to you and still doing things for you because he is scared. My guess is that you are one little topic that has not come up in his counseling sessions. He is probably in there trying to do everything to fix the issue without letting the issue be known.
In other words, he is doing this to appease you. The last time you thought he was disappearing, you found his email address from a third party and commenced to write him multiple emails stating your love. You added him to your IM list even though he was previously against outside work communication,
Tori,
Are you trying not to see one another? How often are you in touch? My situation was very similar as his W was very depressed and he wanted to do whatever it took for her to treat it. Do you feel as though there is a chance for you two? If so, I think a good talk about his life/expectations is totally fair. If not, I would take a step back as not to give him the idea that you are upset about his life...I always feel so silly if I reach out too many times per week/day etc.
Olive
Wow you are so nice, there is no chance,
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