i wonder how much AP friend knows.

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Registered: 06-08-2007
i wonder how much AP friend knows.
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Thu, 10-23-2008 - 9:48am
it's also his former co-worker. when AP and i do get together about once a week, AP will stop at his old job. either i will call him and let him know i'm free or he'll call me to let me know he's there and come over. this is his friends work phone that we use and his place of work. sometimes i wonder how much he knows. AP says he doesn't know really anything except that we are friends, because i've asked him. he's gotta say hey #### what's going on. last week we both came back in his car and his other friend was also there to. so both of his friends seen us coming back together. AP says he likes to keep things to himself. i hope so only because some where's some day maybe one of them could slip something in front of his wife since they both also hang out at his home once in a while. i know he trusts them both, other wise AP wouldn't be with me in front of them at all. i think it makes him feel special and important, and maybe pretty attractive.

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Registered: 10-22-2008
Thu, 10-23-2008 - 11:01pm

Tori...


I've read some of your posts, and I have to say, I don't really understand your relationship.

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Registered: 06-08-2007
Thu, 10-23-2008 - 11:25pm
You actually don't know my whole story. The affair I've been in has been a year and a half.the affair was a work affair at first. Ap and I would see each other on work hours. The affair started out physical, it was never meant to go into anything more.as we really got to know one another we talked more and that was what was important, not sex. He lost his job, so where we seen one another we don't now. We spend time on messanger, no sex and talk about twice a week.have lunch once a week.we meet at his friends work place because I work across the way, its the phone we use, its safe, common ground. It works.believe me I'm very physically attrated to him, but I want the emotional bond instead. Right now in my life he's helping me with some very trying times, includingv moving. He's also helping me with job searching, and listen to him. This is what matters.

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