ideas for day together.

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ideas for day together.
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Tue, 10-07-2008 - 9:24am
this really honestly will be a 9 hour day that ever that my AP and i will get to spend together. i need some fun ideas that we can do . we are going over 2 towns over to spend our day. we are doing this at the end of the week. i thought at first he would chicken out, but he wants to do this as much as i do. i', excited and nervous, it's different then the safety of our little haven that we had. he's venturing with me giving that little push.

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Registered: 09-07-2008
Tue, 10-07-2008 - 9:36am
Hey...is the first time you will have this much time together? If so...let me share my experience with you. A while back AP and I got to go on an overnight trip together. First time we had ever had this much time together. 6 hours away. But just to give you a little of what we did...of course it was a work thing for him so we had nothing but the best accommodations. Of course the first thing we did when we got there was spend some quality time together...this was the first time we had seen each other in 2 months. Afterward we talked about dinner...found a place to go. Both showered together and spent time getting ready. It was very very nice. So we went to dinner and had great conversation...interrupted by a few family calls....we both laughed..when that happened. He asked me if I made my call home....I said yeah...I asked if he made his. When he did no answer. Anyway....we had to go to walmart after because he forgot something so here we were 6 hours from home at walmart...just doing normal things together. It was wonderful. Didn't have to be anything special. Just being together out in public where no one knew was good enough for me. So my advice to you is don't really plan anything. Just go with the flow. Enjoy each other and the time you will have together. It will be a special time for you and something you will always remember as I have.
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Tue, 10-07-2008 - 10:02am
thank you. i'll go with the flow. when we use to see each other was at his place of work. that was for a year and a half. he had a lot of down time. we would see each other about twice a week, but maybe for 2 hours at a time. now things are different. unfortunately the co was so and he lost his job. last week he took me out to lunch, we spent 2 hours together. after lunch we went for a drive, then parked and talked. it was so nice. now we have an entire day for us, totally different.
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Thu, 10-09-2008 - 7:28am
well today is going to be our day. i'm meeting him this morning, we'll take it from there. i've been looking foward to this. this is new to me compared to how we use to spend our time together. to day we have a half day together.
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Thu, 10-09-2008 - 1:48pm
have fun!
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Thu, 10-09-2008 - 4:04pm
we lets see, this was our day. we went to the park, he brought a blanket, sleeping bag for a comfy place to sit, lap top with a movie to watch, and bought a picnic lunch. we picked a place close to the water, and hung a talked for 6 hours. omg, we got so close. i laid my head on his lap, we laid on stomaches and watched a movie, talked some more. very emotional, honest, and open. just a beautiful day. i told him, this will always be our spot.
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Thu, 10-09-2008 - 4:09pm
that is so cool! can we steal your ideas? glad you had a good day.
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Thu, 10-09-2008 - 4:17pm
i picked the park, he thought up the rest. it was so wonderful. a pretty blue sky, great weather, romantic, and beautiful.
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Thu, 10-09-2008 - 4:18pm
6 wonderful, wonderful, hours.
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Thu, 10-09-2008 - 4:42pm
I am sooooo jealous!
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Registered: 09-01-2008
Thu, 10-09-2008 - 5:02pm


Aw, Tori, that just sounds so fantastic! I'm so glad you had a great day

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