Ideas what to give him

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-2009
Ideas what to give him
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Thu, 05-14-2009 - 8:14am

Hello, First of all I want to thank you all for reading this and for finding just a bit of support here. I have been married for 17 yrs and have been living with out love for most of them. For many reasons I have stayed but now I know it wont be long before I break away. I did it once and he said he would " change " but unfortunately he did not. I have met a wonderful man who is in almost the situation as I am. We have fallen in love ..within what our limits allow. It is worth the risk of being hurt just to have the sincere friendship he has showm to me. My question is that this weekend is his birthday and I want to plan something special. I am embarassed to admit that we occasionally meet at a motel.. many of you will understand that I hope. I though of a massasge maybe.. a little whip cream naughty fun.. any ideas ? What could I get him that he could safely take home ? I want to make it a night he won't forget so any ideas are appreciated. Thank you so much


iVillage Member
Registered: 01-07-2009
Thu, 05-14-2009 - 7:35pm
I've given things like, lottery tickets, funny bumper stickers, golf balls, a special sea shell and a little stone that he can carry in his pant pockets. (I think they're called worry stones.