Hello, First of all I want to thank you all for reading this and for finding just a bit of support here. I have been married for 17 yrs and have been living with out love for most of them. For many reasons I have stayed but now I know it wont be long before I break away. I did it once and he said he would " change " but unfortunately he did not. I have met a wonderful man who is in almost the situation as I am. We have fallen in love ..within what our limits allow. It is worth the risk of being hurt just to have the sincere friendship he has showm to me. My question is that this weekend is his birthday and I want to plan something special. I am embarassed to admit that we occasionally meet at a motel.. many of you will understand that I hope. I though of a massasge maybe.. a little whip cream naughty fun.. any ideas ? What could I get him that he could safely take home ? I want to make it a night he won't forget so any ideas are appreciated. Thank you so much