If A's have peaks and valleys, what the heck is this?

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Registered: 01-08-2011
If A's have peaks and valleys, what the heck is this?
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Tue, 04-10-2012 - 5:29pm

My AP and I just went back to work from 10 day spring break.

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Registered: 01-08-2011

I just had an emotional burst within me.

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Registered: 09-12-2005

I feel the same about my AP, I no longer need him. I needed him when we were together, when his wife was away, but 1.5 months later, I'm fine with just communicating with him and seeing him a couple of times per week.

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Registered: 01-08-2011

Sireanita, thanks for your comments.

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Registered: 10-03-2011

Kittery,

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Registered: 01-08-2011

thesmallthings...thank you for your insights.

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Registered: 09-12-2005

I know that my R with the AP started because, inside me, I didn't feel ready for anything serious, precisely, because I was a bit traumatized about my previous R. In a way, I figured that since he's married, he won't annoy me or request my attention like the other single guys. And I guess, because of that, I opened up. I thought about that in the beginning.

I no longer feel traumatized and I'm ready for a serious R now.

The problem is that the attraction we have is so amazing and just won't go away or at least reduce, so I don't think that in my case he's just a crutch.

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Registered: 10-18-2009

Are you sure he forgot his jacket?

Anyway, good thing that he didn't forget his pants, ... it would be more difficult to explain?

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Registered: 09-12-2005

LOL