If there were no sex, would you stay?
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If there were no sex, would you stay?
| Sun, 05-09-2004 - 8:18am |
This morning I woke thinking about my MM - as usual. I have already gushed about him on this board, so I will refrain from doing it again! I can honestly say, that I like him more than just about anyone I know. He is a friend to me, very open, honest, we have so many similar interests and beliefs it is down right spooky. "If" for some reason, things never progressed to the physical level, I would be disappointed no doubt (he is very sexy in my eyes), but I could live with that. It's the person I have come to know that I adore and enjoy being around. When I'm around him, I feel so totally relaxed and free, something I'm not use to since I have lived behind "the wall" due to marial problems. To lose the friend I have some to know would be very difficult.
Do you have that type of closeness with you MM/OM/MW/OW? Do you honetly think the relationship would continue if the sex stopped?

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We have become close in e-mail and phone conversations.
I have known him for about 3 years, and only the last
5months have we had any physical contact. It is just
the normal kissing, touching, no IC.
If he would ask me, though, I would spend the nite.
I could just imagine, no, probably not, the feelings all
inside that I have surface to the top. It would be
a wonderful feeling. Alot of the men on these posts, though,
tell you once you have made love, there are certain commitments
that seem to follow after IC.
Maybe guilt feelings afterwards from both, I don't know.
I would do it, though, if he asked me to.
Good luck and let us know.....
Bunny
If the sex goes away isn't just a friendship?
(just asking, I'm new and not in love with my lover)
We have our ups and downs, but we're best friends as well as lovers. We're also co-writing a book, and have mutual friends and responsibilities in the writing community, so we would definitely still be friends.
But the bottom line for us is that we love each other. I don't see that going away. He's been married for twenty six years, so he knows how to keep a relationship going.
Its not always easy, but I don't see this disappearing. (And I've been divorced. It's just _different_.)
Cazrida
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