If they do it with you

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Registered: 04-28-2003
If they do it with you
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Fri, 02-20-2004 - 6:49am
In reference to cheating, Dr. Phil says "If they do it with you, then they'll do it to you". I am amazed at how many people have an affair, then act all boggled when the person they are having an affair with isn't acting honest. Look, we all want someone we can trust. How do we find them? We stay away from people who are willing to cheat on their signifigant other. Because those are the people who lack the character that would keep them from cheating on us. Duh. No brainer there. You all want to end your relationship problems in regards to cheating? Here is a tip. Find someone who doesn't! Thing is, people who cheat think "everybody cheats". That isn't true. People who steal think "everybody steals". That isn't true. And on and on. Food for thought. There are plenty of good looking, honest, funny, exciting, sexy, unattached singles out there.
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Registered: 04-01-2003
Fri, 02-20-2004 - 8:56am
Not to sound naive, but where are you finding your single men? I've been trying for almost a year, and not that I'm finding a bunch of cheaters, but most of them are out for one thing - sex. And you can't say I'm lying on that one!
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Registered: 01-21-2004
Fri, 02-20-2004 - 9:10am

hi angel4u.

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