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If you work with OM...
| Tue, 05-11-2004 - 11:27pm |
Anyone have to talk to his wife? I'm the first answer the phone where I work and sometimes it's HER. She's so sweet too. :( and polite and thoughtful and the mother of his kids who are the most important people in his world.) Some Fridays she picks up his check and/or brings him a fast food lunch. (I wouldn't swear to it but I think she may have picked out the little B-day gift he got me in Dec for him. I don't even wanna know the answer on that one.) She called the day after secretary's day to say she chewed him for not taking care of us office girls.(IM NOT A SECRETARY) That was awkward and kind of funny. She was on a rip about him. It was funnier watching him when I told him the story :) I feel a bit strange around her then I " play secretary/assistant" and forget I'm the OW.
He says it doesn"t bother him to see my DH pick me up for lunch. I think it does when DH pulls up on his motorcycle. OM is afraid of motorcycles. He had a bad accident as a kid. I always try to catch his attention from the back of the bike as we pull out of the yard.

By being friends with his wife I get to see another side of their relationship. She doesn't love him and is only in the M for the checkbook. She hates having IC (her loss because he is great!) and complains when he makes a move in bed. He finally stopped and she said "he finally got the hint". She once made a comment that she wished he'd get a girlfriend so he'd leave her alone!
It doesn't bother me that I'm having an A with my friends H, since I know how she treats him. But it does bother me when we are out as couples and his W hangs all over MM and acts like they are the happiest couple in the world...gag me!
Our A is a lot more than great sex. We work in a high stress and morbid environment. We support each other in ways our spouses could never understand. He makes me laugh and smile when I need it most.