ignored all phone calls from SMM

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Registered: 11-19-2003
ignored all phone calls from SMM
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Wed, 11-26-2003 - 5:12pm
I ignored all phone calls from my SMM yesterday (7 missed calls) and today (13 missed calls). He's probably getting frantic trying to reach me. I got really mad yesterday after talking to him and found out he can't spend thanksgiving dinner with me. I said I would bring over the turkey and eat dinner and then leave. He has to watch his son, the wife won't be there, so I don't understand why I can't come. Am I being harsh? He said he can see me sunday afternoon and night...but if I just continue to ignore all phone calls maybe I'll be able to forget about him since he has to watch his son this week and next weekend.

He said yesterday I'm impatient, and that we've only been 1 year and why can't I wait 1-2 years more. And I'm not understanding of his situation. He made it up to me for my birthday a few nights ago, took me to expensive restaurant spent $250 on dinner, bought me a lei, a naughty birthday card and chocolates. He's nice when he wants to be and he left messages saying he loves me and misses me.

Continue ignoring his calls?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2003
Wed, 11-26-2003 - 5:53pm
He sounds wonderful and very thoughtful. Don't ignore his calls. Be thankful for the time you have together.