ignoring om

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ignoring om
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Wed, 10-29-2003 - 12:08pm
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Edited 9/20/2004 2:04 pm ET ET by seansluv
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In reply to: seansluv
Fri, 10-31-2003 - 1:03pm
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Edited 9/20/2004 2:00 pm ET ET by seansluv
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Registered: 09-03-2003
In reply to: seansluv
Fri, 10-31-2003 - 3:11pm
I'm there with you. I miss him SO much...just talking to him. It really hasn't even been a day but it hurts to be shut out like this. I wish I had the will power to just ignore him. I tried...stayed away from my desk for a while...but then when I finally got back, someone had called my voice mail and hung up. Called H and asked if it was him and he said nope. Hardly anyone else calls so I know it probably was MM, listening through my voice mail message for some reason. Maybe he'd planned to leave a message; I don't know. I just want to see him, talk to him, laugh with him. I won't pressure him in any way. But I know if he's avoiding me, he's avoiding me. He may come to see me, maybe not. It's that time of day I never know; it's just SOOOOOO hard. I saw him just a few minutes ago from a distance, helping someone with something. He didn't see me. I kept walking but it physically pained me, wanting him to see me just so I could say hi. Luckily there was no comfortable way I could get his attention without drawing attention to myself. Yes, ignoring him does work but sometimes you actually hurt yourself as much or more than you hurt them. Try not to let it go too long. It doesn't hurt to make them play hard to get a little, but you do want to let them catch you every now and then!!!
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In reply to: seansluv
Fri, 10-31-2003 - 3:28pm
i wish there was another way i could contact om, but the internet is it. he's staying with a friend. i was hoping he would give me the phone number, but he hasn't.