Hi Geek, Well, I 'm glad things are looking better for you. I can't imagine how Christmas was, you poor thing. I hate those snoopy H's! It's been a strange time for me too. H and I went on our vacation, it was nice but there was another couple there that I didn't really care for. I kind of did my own thing:) Lots of lying on the beach and napping:) MM is good, I have only seen him socially since before Christmas. Needless to say he is shopping at the bit, so I promised him I would leave work early on Monday to have one of our marathon afternoons. Anyway, Glad to see you back in one piece:) NMR
Funny, I haven't checked this forum in about three weeks and there you are! I'm sorry to hear things weren't all that great towards year's end. To tell you the truth, I wouldn't know what a "normal" holiday looks like anymore. But I am glad to see that maybe the guy you married is somehow meeting your needs and is definitely forgiving. That second aspect sez a lot about anyone and in my book, they are worth hanging out with. I guess sometimes you have to hop the fence and see that while you maybe landed on some grass, in some cases your yard from that prospective doesn't look all that bad after all. Me? It's been one of those weeks and I'm just soooo glad it's over. I'm taking a grad class and it's making my head hurt. My M is a complete f'in disaster as of late. I tried being honest with W about a few things and it blew up. A friend of mine sent me some pictures of Newfoundland where there was about 6 feet of snow. She said that maybe I should take a vacation there (she knows I hate winter). I think she's right. Anyway, no one sez you can't be friends with SG - steam generator, I mean single guy. Just don't forget, your husband is your friend too. The fact that he is still there proves it. Now that the jig is up and he knows the deal, perhaps he will try more to be the friend you were looking for. I would like to think so.
hey chicky-poo, where have you been, girl!!
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Funny, I haven't checked this forum in about three weeks and there you are! I'm sorry to hear things weren't all that great towards year's end. To tell you the truth, I wouldn't know what a "normal" holiday looks like anymore. But I am glad to see that maybe the guy you married is somehow meeting your needs and is definitely forgiving. That second aspect sez a lot about anyone and in my book, they are worth hanging out with. I guess sometimes you have to hop the fence and see that while you maybe landed on some grass, in some cases your yard from that prospective doesn't look all that bad after all. Me? It's been one of those weeks and I'm just soooo glad it's over. I'm taking a grad class and it's making my head hurt. My M is a complete f'in disaster as of late. I tried being honest with W about a few things and it blew up. A friend of mine sent me some pictures of Newfoundland where there was about 6 feet of snow. She said that maybe I should take a vacation there (she knows I hate winter). I think she's right. Anyway, no one sez you can't be friends with SG - steam generator, I mean single guy. Just don't forget, your husband is your friend too. The fact that he is still there proves it. Now that the jig is up and he knows the deal, perhaps he will try more to be the friend you were looking for. I would like to think so.
Hope it's all giving you peace of mind
Edited 1/31/2004 9:28:12 AM ET by lostvoyage