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| Tue, 01-20-2009 - 5:58pm |
who here has ever said hey would NEVER mess around with a married person...??
me first....raising my hand high in the air going ooo oooh oooh not me..no never....anyone else wanna reveal...?
thanks everyone..your posts and threads are helping me get through these gut wrenching days...i've sat everyday for the past week and 3 days in tears barely able to see the computer screen..but i'm feeling a tad bit better......
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

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thanks for the advice..you may be right...i don't know...remember i had a compartmentalizer...i think that when he could no longer compartmentalize it became harder too...but you probably are correct in some of what you say...thanks for replying.and no you didn't offend me at all
tyger
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
oh lovemenow2008 i forgot to address the first part of your post..that poster that replied to me..often stalks out my posts and will make blanket statements...they know nothing about me and my AP..i had as a matter of fact blocked them but found out that even if you block someone they can read what you write by not logging in and then reply to you if they hit reply and log in their name and password....and then you can see what they've written to you if you do not log in...(sounds confusing but that's how it goes)
and thanks again for you advice..i don't think there's anything wrong with pushing me away to do right by his wife..i think it's the way he went about it...but then again that might not have been it..he's pretty honest about his feelings..and still had said he didn't know what else to do to not disappoint me...i get emotional now when talking to him even if it's by text...so i can't talk to him right now because i need to be able to meet people and be in good spirits for my son...he still sees me crying sometimes..i think he sneaks on me...but i do know when he and i text and the conversation doesn't go where either the xap or i want it to..there's a phone call or text to my son asking if everything's okay in the house if he needs anything and how he's doing...that's xap's pattern...and way of saying he still loves and cares...he's really direct and i used to think he was really mean but it's not a mean thing..it's just the way he is..he has to show his affection or concern in other ways....
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
Edited 1/27/2009 4:54 pm ET by addicted2mya
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