I'm in Deep trouble.....
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| Mon, 08-18-2003 - 6:01pm |
Quick update..new name cause I cannot remember my old one. I'm married, have DD at home and DH stays at home as well. I am now the sole breadwinner of the family for the past three months and have been having an affair with a great guy who is married as well and wants out of his marriage badly. We live a few hours apart and see each other about every month to every two months. We love each other alot, but I also still love my DH and don't want to hurt him.
Here's the bad thing...I just found out this week that I am pregnant by MM. I know it is his because my DH had a vasectomy last year and we haven't been sleeping together for awhile now. We used protection (I was on the pill!!!) and it was three weeks ago that MM was up here and we saw each other. I am so torn apart, I do not know what to do. I have been breaking down, feeling like -censored- for having hurt my DH like this. I have yet to tell MM about this. I'm seeing him this weekend to tell him. I do not know how he is going to take this. He's told me before he's imagined having kids with me. I need help, I am so torn. I realized I do not want to lose my DH, but I will if he finds out about this.
Has anyone else been in this kind of situation? I'm about in tears right now over this and I am here at work completely scatter brained.
Help me, someone?

Stay strong, take care of yourself first. At this point, it's all you *can* do.
Good luck and keep us posted.
-lily
You need to decide whats best for you first.. do you want to stay with your H? OR do you maybe want a D and be with your MM?
Let us know what happens, whatever you do we'll be here for you. =)
Thanks again!