I'm doing it....I'm filing
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I'm doing it....I'm filing
| Tue, 03-09-2004 - 10:22am |
My H and I had a big fight last night...the final straw, so to speak. He is a very angry, domineering person and can be quite cruel to me and the kids. His anger has gotten to the point where I am almost afraid to be around him. My stomach knots up just thinking about going home to face him tonight. I'm going to play it cool for a few days in order to retain an attorney, find an apartment, and arrange to have a day off work to get everything moved. I'm even going to have the papers served while I'm moving out in order to have a police officer at my house in case he shows up. I'm even going to try to obtain a restraining order against him because of his anger. Have any of you ever gone through this type of situation? My MM is very supportive of me...he knows I am doing this for me and the kids...he knows it's not for him. But in him, I have found a wonderful listener and a person with the background and education to give me good advice. If I didn't have him right now, it would be so easy to fall apart. I am grateful for each of you, as well. Thank you.

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I'm 6' 170 and she's 5'10" 115 :)
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He's 6'4", 200. I'm 5'3 1/2" (that's an important 1/2", BTW) and you never ask a lady's weight, but I wear a size 10. And he makes me feel like a tiny Barbie doll. ::very big grin::
He's ex-military, too! Lord, they do turn out some wonderful men!
Cazrida
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Edited 3/11/2004 9:49 am ET ET by julietsfate
I talked to MM yesterday and he helped me out of my funk a little bit. He is always good at cheering me up. I miss him so much because on top of everything else, I sure could use a good hug. I'll keep you all posted. Thanks for being there for me.
Oh...and by the way, my H told me this morning that he shot our neighbor's cat because it kept coming over and eating our cat's food. I'm half tempted to call somebody and report it anonymously. I don't know if I should, he'd probably figure out it was me who reported it. I'm so upset over this.
hey nry -- sweetie, everything you're feeling is unfortunately normal in this situation.
CL-Gurlfriend50
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And, being in Georgia (I'm not sure about rules in other states), once papers are signed, it's only a 30-day period for finalization. If anyone else has gone through a divorce, could you give me some idea of a timeline for you....between filing papers and being free again. I know the states are different, but it'd give me some sort of idea.
Thanks!!
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