I'm Having An Affair

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-13-2001
I'm Having An Affair
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Mon, 07-13-2009 - 5:03pm

There, I said it.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-13-2006
Mon, 07-13-2009 - 7:00pm

Hi Lady...sorry to see you here.


If marriage counseling is not an option for you, maybe it is time to cut your losses and move on. How "right" is it to set your young daughters up to think that the kind of relationship they see between you and your husbad is right? You are teaching them that settling and being miserable is acceptable. You and I both know its not...there are reasons we stay: finances, don't want our kids being raised in "broken" homes (tho the relationship is dysfucntional).


We always want what's right for our kids, and depending on where you live, if your A is ever discovered and a divorce ensues at your husband's initiation, you may have alot less say in how and where your girls are raised.


Take care.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-13-2001
Mon, 07-13-2009 - 7:16pm

Thank you Gal.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-02-2004
Tue, 07-14-2009 - 7:10am

>Question is, where do I go from here?