I'm not sure if i'm in the right place..

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-28-2003
I'm not sure if i'm in the right place..
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Fri, 11-07-2008 - 9:31pm

but i'm "with" a guy who is also with another girl.


To make a long story short, we met randomly-he was single, I was single, we talked all the time - he

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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2005

Hi


I'm going to echo everyone else who has told you to get out.


iVillage Member
Registered: 09-01-2008

Aw, hon..

He's really not being very nice to either of you. He has his g/f but he's happy to flaunt you around? He's got no respect for either of you and he sounds kinda weak. He lets her move in but doesn't really want her? He doesn't care if the two of you are seen together? He seems like the kind of guy who wants other people to take responsibility.

The two of you were single and could have had a proper relationship. Instead he chose this. Please, leave him now. If you feel you must, tell him he has to choose between the two of you, but I would put money on his choosing the easy option.

So sorry

D x

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-28-2003

thanks :)


and i know i'm not a secret 'cause all his family from my hometown know we were together

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iVillage Member
Registered: 09-01-2008

" its now my time to tell my heart that and move on. but my heart is kinda slow in getting the message ;) "

Ah.. that I know all too well. Which is whgy I've been in an affair since pretty much the start of the 21st Century! I love my AP and I believe he loves me, but he prefers the easy life. I wouldn't want anyone else to be stuck in this world as long as I've been!

D x