IM PREGNANTAND ITS NOT MY HUBBY'S
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IM PREGNANTAND ITS NOT MY HUBBY'S
| Thu, 03-12-2009 - 5:25pm |
I HAD A ONE NIGHT STAND WITH A DISTANT FRIEND OF MY HUBBY'S WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED
| Thu, 03-12-2009 - 5:25pm |
I HAD A ONE NIGHT STAND WITH A DISTANT FRIEND OF MY HUBBY'S WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED
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Hi reese,
I know how you feel; I got pg when I was 20 and I wasn't 100% sure who was the father. I was praying that it was with my bf but I was not sure. I stressed over it for 9 months and when he was born I kind of knew it was my bf's, he looked like him, and the baby had my blood type so I knew I probably would never have to tell. I never had a paternity test. He is now 18 and looks like his dad (I didn't stay with his father).
I guess you need to think about if you are ready to raise him as a single mom if ever the baby is not your H's and he decides to leave you. If the answer is yes then you can consider keeping the baby. That's how I made my choice to keep my son. Second, regarding telling your H, my advice is to do what you feel is best in your heart for you and your baby. You'll have some time to think about it, anyway, since the baby won't be here for a few months.
I would definitely not tell your H's friend that it might be his baby unless you are ready for the fact that he could tell someone else, or want to be in his child's life.
good luck,
trixie
Did you see my reply from your post in the other boards?
I went through the same thing...still going through it.
Reese,
I am sorry to hear that you are in the situation that you are in.
Reese
I know you have ALOT to consider but just wanted to encourage you to get more accurate info re:
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