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I'm pulling away
| Mon, 09-22-2003 - 2:36pm |
I got tired of all last week calling and being all nice to MM, he was always the first one to call me in the morning, and after that when i call he's always so busy and he's distant. Normally we would talk on email all day and he would call me about 3 to 4 times a day for no reason. But that has stopped for the last two weeks now, and i miss that. I decided to call him on Friday he couldn't talk because his boss was standing right there with him. He didn't call me back not even to wish me a good week-end. So today i waited and finally he called half an hour ago, but i wasn't available so he left a message. He said he would call back when he has a chance later. I decided not to call him until he does. Should i wait? Is pulling away a good idea to bring them back? Does it work? What do you think? One more question, if he says he has feelings for me, what do you think it generally means?

I have been reading all of your posts and looks like your OM has lost interest in your realtionship. Why would anybody ignore you like that, if they did not want to be involved in the first place? Even if he was busy and calling you was impossible, his would make amends in some other way if your R meant something to him. Priority lists are not for ppl but for ACTION items that SHOW the other person that they mean something. YOU don't have be a priority but your relationship has to be if it has to survive. My 2 cents....
sounds so real, as in my life. I agree you need to try to make yourself not so available which is so so so hard, but i have found 2 steps back brings him one step forward. I am not the type to play games, but when you want something you have to be smart on how to get it. I wouldn't pull back too much, just enough to make him want you more....goodluck
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hugs, Dusty