I'm Scared! Don't know what to Do!

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Registered: 03-15-2004
I'm Scared! Don't know what to Do!
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Thu, 03-25-2004 - 8:47am
Well, it looks like my MM is having second thoughts. We are to be meeting today, so I emailed him this morning and told him that whatever time was good for him would be good for me.

Then, I get an email back, saying he's just finishing up a letter he is writing me and then he is going to send it. Panic!!!

So I email him back saying - "If this is a brush off - I don't deserve a letter - I deserve face to face!"

His next response goes as follows:

"The letter is not a brush off! It's a letter meant to share my feelings and emotions with you. It may not be what you want to hear but it's the truth.

And I plan on meeting with you as we discussed yesterday. This is not a confrontation so don't make it that, please.

My customer just left. Let me finish the letter and then call me when your done reading it. We can meet this morning ..."


Then I get this:

"I wont e-mail the letter I'll bring it with me instead. It's not a brush off letter like you might be thinking. After what we've been through a brush off wouldn't be right. Nor do I think of it as a brush off.

I mean lets face it this is not a easy thing we're involved in.

Let me know what time you want to meet."

Oh God, help me. I don't know what to do!!!

Red





Edited 4/22/2004 9:11 am ET ET by red_bella

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Registered: 02-16-2004
Thu, 03-25-2004 - 8:58am
Oh Red...it's so hard to figure out what kind of letter he wrote, isn't it? I hope it isn't a brush off letter, but at least he's going to tell you whatever it is face to face. Maybe that way you can share how you feel at the same time. I wouldn't know what to expect from him, either. My thought are with you - I hope all works out well for you.
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Registered: 03-24-2004
Thu, 03-25-2004 - 9:48am
Your mm sounds identicle to mine. Did I read that he just got back from vacation? Gosh, I hate men! That's exactly what mine did to me. Told me it wasn't a brush off letter, but met me, slept with me, and then gave me the brush off letter. It was like goodbye sex. Men stink. Ugh... Anyway, I have a really nice guy now. Don't worry. It'll be ok.
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Registered: 09-16-2003
Thu, 03-25-2004 - 10:02am
Hey Sujata,

I am glad you got a good guy now. I know sex is goood (I'll take even the goodbye sex... LOL), but that letter was a slap in the face. Dang it, I am sorry you were hurt like that...

Juliet

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Registered: 03-24-2004
Thu, 03-25-2004 - 10:37am
Thanks Juliet.. it was an invaluable learning lesson. I got it, I moved on. It wasn't that big of a deal. He was a class A jerk, but like you said... sex is good, and sometimes you just have to take the bad to get to the damn good stuff! :-)

Ah.. memories....


sujata

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Registered: 01-21-2004
Thu, 03-25-2004 - 1:47pm
UPDATE US...i'm waiting patiently ;)...Ok not so patiently... I'm hoping for good news!