I'm trying to move on

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Registered: 03-26-2003
I'm trying to move on
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Wed, 08-27-2003 - 11:33am
Last year when MM and his W were seperated, MM and I had an open, real relationship. During that time I found out that he had been talking to other women behind my back. When I confronted MM about it, he said that they were "just friends". I gave him the drill, and I contacted her, and she said they were just friends. The whole situation caused me not to trust MM. There have been several posts on this board lately about "once a cheater, always a cheater". I don't know if that is true or not.

MM, can only talk while he is at work. He has a 15 minute break in the morning, and a 15 minute break in the afternoon. MM, is a blue collar worker. This morning while talking to him on the phone (company phone) the second line rings, he puts me on hold, and I'm holding forever. So, I put the phone on hold, and call the other line......MM, answers. I ask, why he has left me on hold for so long.......that's when he starts studdering, and stamering, like he is trying to come up with an excuse.

Now, the first thing that pops into my head is that he is talking to "the other woman II". I wonder if he talks to her during the day. I have never gotten over that. I want to move past the whole situation, but there is always that little question mark in the back of my head.

I will testify to this statement "if you don't have trust, you don't have anything".

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 08-27-2003 - 11:59am
maybe he just forgot you on the other line and was trying to come up with an excuse. sorry, i know how you feel about the possibility of being third or fourth on his importance list. but really if you're trying to move on, try to let go of the "to trust or not to trust" issue and keep busy.

keep your chin up,

gurl

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-25-2003
Wed, 08-27-2003 - 2:49pm
Move on girlfriend...