Insight Appreciated from Long Termers

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Registered: 08-31-2009
Insight Appreciated from Long Termers
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Mon, 08-31-2009 - 5:19pm

I've been in an A for about 7 months - things have been going well - a few ups and downs but well.

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Registered: 03-12-2006
Mon, 08-31-2009 - 11:32pm

Well what's most important to keep in mind is the fact that regardless of the status of his marriage; even if it is an unhappy one - the fact remains that he still has an obligation to his W and family. And your AP still has to keep up appearances and save face whenever possible.


Both myself and my AP currently had spouse(s),

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Registered: 06-15-2009
Tue, 09-01-2009 - 10:45am
I have been in an affair for a year and a half, I am the one always wanting to get out but he never lets me, not that he doesn't let me he just doesn't take me serious and then I cave and we continue.