I don't have a very good memory but if I'm not mistaken sireanita mentioned that she would be fine with having an AP rather than a BF/H.... and if I'm not mistaken again, the only issue would be having another child. Please correct me if I'm wrong sireanita, and I'm only saying these because in your recent post you only talked about him, and not what you want. As Sunny would say, don't let this become your life, but only an addition to it. I hope he returns soon though because I know LDRs are not easy, even when it's one-to-one.
aphrodite-n-taurus wrote:Whether he is having problems with his wife or not they really do have any bearing on your relationship, depending on the severity of the problems many of us wll stay in our M's, especially if there are children involved.
Whether he is having problems with his wife or not they really do have any bearing on your relationship, depending on the severity of the problems many of us wll stay in our M's, especially if there are children involved.
Iannman, this is a first serious answer to my post, thank you ! LOL
One thing I adore about you is how honest you are.
Much peace & Love,
I totally agree with Sunnydays.
thanks for the compliment. I love your insight, you always have great advice. And ditto about the nice picture LOL.
And thanks to the other ladies too :)
Actually I don't have a real hope of being with him. It's more like a leftover hope, similar to the one a person who stays in a miserable relationship feels.
The funny thing is that I don't mind his cheating. After reading these boards, I almost think that it's inevitable to some extent, more matter who I am with. And I probably prefer a cheating husband with whom I still have something good going on (he still takes care of his W despite his feelings for me) than with a faithful H, but with problems. Or is it love talking ? LOL
He just came back from Cuba and says that he can't wait to see me (and it's mutual). We had an email fight last week and after a few explanations, he told me that I'm the most amazing woman he has ever met. I know that it means nothing, didn't make me feel much better.
I think I'm going to get a rebound guy to distract myself and in general, fill up my life with activities. Next week I'm going to Miami (thanks to my mom who kindly agreed to babysit my son). And I'll see how I could fit him in my life as a positive addition, as opposed to being desperate for him.